Comments on: Confidence- Now in a Convenient Travel Size! http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/2009/05/16/confidence-now-in-a-convenient-travel-size/ Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:53:58 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: westfal http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/2009/05/16/confidence-now-in-a-convenient-travel-size/#comment-310 westfal Wed, 24 Feb 2010 23:30:38 +0000 http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/?p=237#comment-310 ...have never understood the wimp profile for us guy subs being a non-sissie type myself.....have always had the more maso orientation of suffering well for Her and serving and worshipping, which doesn't conflict with being masculine, confident,worldly successul......so guess its just a different orientation .......maybe we should have 2 segments for male subs= A) non-sissies and non worms...however else described and B) s and w .......wonder if the Dommes would be tickled with that?? …have never understood the wimp profile for us guy subs being a non-sissie type myself…..have always had the more maso orientation of suffering well for Her and serving and worshipping, which doesn’t conflict with being masculine, confident,worldly successul……so guess its just a different orientation …….maybe we should have 2 segments for male subs= A) non-sissies and non worms…however else described and B) s and w …….wonder if the Dommes would be tickled with that??

]]> By: Submission of the strong-willed | Kink Unleashed http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/2009/05/16/confidence-now-in-a-convenient-travel-size/#comment-206 Submission of the strong-willed | Kink Unleashed Mon, 08 Jun 2009 01:14:41 +0000 http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/?p=237#comment-206 [...] to me, but I also love his spirit and it’s with a lot of fondness that I call him a brat. Roo-roo had a nice way of putting it, a couple weeks back: “What fun is it to dominate a limp [...] [...] to me, but I also love his spirit and it’s with a lot of fondness that I call him a brat. Roo-roo had a nice way of putting it, a couple weeks back: “What fun is it to dominate a limp [...]

]]> By: Tom Allen http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/2009/05/16/confidence-now-in-a-convenient-travel-size/#comment-204 Tom Allen Sun, 17 May 2009 04:18:01 +0000 http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/?p=237#comment-204 A long time ago I was seeing a girl, and I gently broached the subject of kink to see how receptive she'd be. Her response was something like "Eww, you mean a guy who wants me to say 'Crawl you miserable worm' and all that? Why would I want to be with some wimpy guy like that?" Somehow, that's the conception she had of femdom play, and it squicked her pretty badly. Ironically, she was an Amazon - athletic, strong, and determined, and had a great body that would have looked awesome in leather. Ah, well. History. Unfortunately, the miserable worm stereotype is the one that seems to have stuck in the public mind, so pretty much anyone exploring D/s is going to adopt them, much to the annoyance of actual dominants. A long time ago I was seeing a girl, and I gently broached the subject of kink to see how receptive she’d be. Her response was something like “Eww, you mean a guy who wants me to say ‘Crawl you miserable worm’ and all that? Why would I want to be with some wimpy guy like that?”

Somehow, that’s the conception she had of femdom play, and it squicked her pretty badly. Ironically, she was an Amazon – athletic, strong, and determined, and had a great body that would have looked awesome in leather. Ah, well. History.

Unfortunately, the miserable worm stereotype is the one that seems to have stuck in the public mind, so pretty much anyone exploring D/s is going to adopt them, much to the annoyance of actual dominants.

]]> By: Elle http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/2009/05/16/confidence-now-in-a-convenient-travel-size/#comment-203 Elle Sat, 16 May 2009 21:02:33 +0000 http://pureliquidkink.wordpress.com/?p=237#comment-203 Well said. Well said.

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