my cock is the center of the solar system

I’ve run into a few people recently who’ve complained that cbt is phallocentric.  My immediate response is typically “Well yeah!”  I mean, it’s a cock and balls. It can’t be anything other than that.  Impact play on the ass is ass-centric.  Foot play is foot-centric.  Nipple play is nipple-centric.  Every type of play involving a specific body part can be seen as whatever-centric.

But my next thought is that I don’t hear these same people complaining that breast bondage is tit-centric or that pussy torture is vagocentric.  Where are all their complaints with those types of play?

Let me explain something.  There are these people called “sadists”.  These sadists get enjoyment from causing pain.  Pretty simple, right?  Kicking someone in the balls, slapping his cock around, or squeezing his juevos are all painful.  Some sadists get off on doing this.  They enjoy it.  It’s not a case of the sub putting a gun to someone’s head and forcing her to torment his goodies.

To me, their vague complaints reek of the whole “men aren’t supposed to enjoy bdsm” attitude.  It’s perfectly fine for female masochists to get off on receiving pain, but not men.  Riiiiight.

I think the people who object to cbt as being phallocentric have deeper issues beyond some perceived phallic conspiracy.  It’s not a hard concept; some people find that kind of pain erotic.  It’s not a power trip.  It’s just hot.

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