Taking the Sexy out of Chastity

There seems to be a rather common misconception out there that chastity devices are designed or intended to prevent erections.  I don’t understand why this way of thinking is still around.  If you get a cock cage that actually fits properly, there isn’t any trouble with that.  You can get hard frequently; you just can’t orgasm.  The point of chastity is to prevent orgasm, not erections.  Why is this so hard for some people to grasp?  It’s called “orgasm control” for a reason.

If you’re locked up, and it hurts when you get hard, there’s something wrong.  Most likely, your cage is too small or you’re using the wrong size ring.  Having a secure fit doesn’t mean it should strangle all the blood out of your cock.

Besides, why would you want to prevent your sub from getting hard?  Why would you condition someone to stay flaccid all the time?  Hard cocks are sexy.  Just because he’s hard doesn’t mean you have to let him orgasm. Do you want to condition him to not have other normal biological functions as well?

It’s sort of like saying that underwear is designed to squeeze your balls until you wince.  If you buy them three sizes too small, then yes, they’ll do that.  But if you buy the right size, they fit well and function normally.  Cock cages are no different.

Chastity has nothing to do with suppressing sex drive or erections.  In fact, it’s just the opposite.  It’s about driving someone crazy, it’s about power, it’s about control, it’s about ownership.  All very sexy things.

5 Responses to “Taking the Sexy out of Chastity”

  1. Mykey Says:

    Yeah lovely theory, but find me the chastity belt that is comfortable and allows, say, a hard nighttime erection without at least discomfort, and I will eat my hat.

    Ive had a lot, and only my neosteel allows that, but it’s damned uncomfortable during daytime movements instead.

    The dream man, I dig the dream.


  2. Quietlisten Says:

    Gotta disagree with you on this one. My CB-6000 points DOWN for a reason. If I was supposed to get lots of erections, it would be much larger and made to lay flat against my belly. As it is, it is just large enough to accommodate me 95% of the time, the remaining 5% being when I’m helplessly turned on. “Oh, crap, I’m getting aroused… that’s going to suck because I’m locked in a chastity cage. Oh, no, being locked in a chastity cage gets me aroused….”

    I haven’t found a device yet that doesn’t create discomfort during full-blown arousal. Even if I put a larger base ring on it, that allows it to strangle the other dangly bits which is NOT a fair trade-off. Trying to fix that problem leaves me with a plastic sheath that can be pulled off and put on at will.

    Agreed that a chastity device should not be painful most of the time, or even under mild arousal. But if your volume is highly variable, you’re going to have some discomfort when that volume starts getting filled and the only place it has to go is opposite to the direction it was made to go.

    Just my experience to date.


  3. pureliquidkink Says:

    That’s why I use the Curve. I’ve tried the 2000 and 3000, and a couple others. The Curve also points down, but my cock and balls can move in any direction, so the cage can point anywhere my parts do.

    A certain amount of occasional discomfort is to be expected. But when people say that the point of chastity is to prevent erections or that it’s impossible to get hard in chastity, that’s just plain wrong.

  4. Tom Allen Says:

    It’s sort of like saying that underwear is designed to squeeze your balls until you wince.

    Roo had been having debilitating migraines since he was a young man. After 20 years of constant pain, he saw a specialist.

    The doctor said, “Roo, the good news is I can cure your headaches. The bad news is that it will require castration. You have a very rare condition, which causes your testicles to press on your spine, and the pressure creates one hell of a headache. The only way to relieve the pressure is to remove the testicles.”

    Roo was shocked and depressed. He wondered if he had anything to live for. He couldn’t concentrate long enough to answer, but decided he had no choice but to go under the knife.

    When he left the hospital he was without a headache for the first time in 20 years, but he felt like he was missing an important part of himself. As he walked down the street, he realized that he felt like a different person. He could make a new beginning and live a new life. He saw a men’s clothing store & thought, “That’s what I need – a new suit.”

    He entered the shop and told the salesman, “I’d like a new suit.” The elderly tailor eyed him briefly and said, “Let’s see … size 44 long.” Roo laughed, “That’s right, how did you know?” “Been in the business 60 years!” Roo tried on the suit. It fit perfectly.

    As Roo admired himself in the mirror, the salesman asked, “How about a new shirt?” Roo thought for a moment and then said, “Sure.” The salesman eyed Roo and said, “Let’s see, 34 sleeve & 16-1/2 neck.” Again, Roo was surprised, “That’s right, how did you know?” “Been in the business 60 years!”

    Roo tried on the shirt, and it fit perfectly. As Roo adjusted the collar in the mirror, the salesman asked, “How about new shoes?” Roo was on a roll and said, “Sure.” The salesman eyed Roo’s feet and said, “Let’s see … 9-1/2 E.” Roo was astonished, “That’s right, how did you know?” “Been in the business 60 years!”

    Roo tried on the shoes and they fit perfectly. Roo walked comfortably around the shop and the salesman asked, “How about some new underwear?” Roo thought for a second and said, “Sure.” The salesman stepped back, eyed Roo’s waist and said, “Let’s see… size 36.”

    Roo laughed. “Ah ha! I got you! I’ve worn size 34 since I was 18 years old.” The salesman shook his head, “You can’t wear a size 34. A size 34 underwear would press your testicles up against the base of your spine and give you one hell of a headache.

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