K, Bi Now!

I’ve got a confession to make.  I’ve got a severe case of the hetero.

It’s amazing how many women in the local community, my Mistress included, want to watch me kiss or have some form of sex with another guy.  I’m not opposed to the idea as long as I’m attracted to him.  (Playing with or having sex with people I’m not attracted to is a limit for me.)  The problem is that I have yet to meet a guy I’m attracted to; this, I believe, is what they call “being heterosexual”.  For some, it’s a chronic condition.

Bisexuality used to be taboo for men in the local bdsm scene.  It was ok for women to be bi, but men instantly lost social status if they admitted to being bi.  So the men who were bisexual usually kept this information under very tight wraps.  Thankfully a lot has changed since then.  We’ve got quite a few openly bi men in our groups now, and their orientation doesn’t cause any problems.

While I do get turned on by strap-on sex, that’s still with a woman.  It’s not about the cock itself, it’s about the person on the other end of that cock.  And in my case, the person on the other end of the cock is always a woman.  The thought of sex with a man simply does nothing for me.

An ex once told me that she thinks I’ll be full-on bisexual at some point, that it was just a matter of time.  Maybe, maybe not.  People tend to evolve over time.  Some of the things that used to be limits for me are now things that get me hot.  Other former hard limits are now things that I’d be willing to do, provided there was enough persuasion or force.  Limits and interests can change over the years.  It’s hard to say how things will be 5 or 10 years from now.

Someone we know does erotic hypnosis.  T came up with the idea of having him hypnotize me to become bisexual.   The other day I asked him, “Does hypnosis work on people who don’t believe in hypnosis?” and he said yes.  I’m open to trying it, though honestly I doubt its efficacy.  While I’m happy with my sexuality and who I am, I see no harm in potentially adding some more options to the table.

2 Responses to “K, Bi Now!”

  1. Stabbity Says:

    “It’s amazing how many women in the local community, my Mistress included, want to watch me kiss or have some form of sex with another guy.”

    Not compared to how many guys like girl-on-girl porn 🙂 It’s just that most women outside the scene hide their liking for guy-on-guy for fear of being seen as some kind of dirty pervert.

    That said, I’ve never really understood the appeal of forced bi. An enthusiastic make-out session between two guys who were really into each other would be super hot. An awkward make-out session between two guys where at least one of them is only doing it to amuse his mistress just wouldn’t turn me on at all.

  2. pureliquidkink Says:

    @Stabbity- That’s a good point. And there seems to be more pressure on women in general to *not* be dirty perverts.

    I agree on the enthusiasm vs. awkwardness thing. If it’s entertainment and not genuine lust at the root of it….. blah.


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