I’ve got a confession to make. I’ve got a severe case of the hetero.
It’s amazing how many women in the local community, my Mistress included, want to watch me kiss or have some form of sex with another guy. I’m not opposed to the idea as long as I’m attracted to him. (Playing with or having sex with people I’m not attracted to is a limit for me.) The problem is that I have yet to meet a guy I’m attracted to; this, I believe, is what they call “being heterosexual”. For some, it’s a chronic condition.
Bisexuality used to be taboo for men in the local bdsm scene. It was ok for women to be bi, but men instantly lost social status if they admitted to being bi. So the men who were bisexual usually kept this information under very tight wraps. Thankfully a lot has changed since then. We’ve got quite a few openly bi men in our groups now, and their orientation doesn’t cause any problems.
While I do get turned on by strap-on sex, that’s still with a woman. It’s not about the cock itself, it’s about the person on the other end of that cock. And in my case, the person on the other end of the cock is always a woman. The thought of sex with a man simply does nothing for me.
An ex once told me that she thinks I’ll be full-on bisexual at some point, that it was just a matter of time. Maybe, maybe not. People tend to evolve over time. Some of the things that used to be limits for me are now things that get me hot. Other former hard limits are now things that I’d be willing to do, provided there was enough persuasion or force. Limits and interests can change over the years. It’s hard to say how things will be 5 or 10 years from now.
Someone we know does erotic hypnosis. T came up with the idea of having him hypnotize me to become bisexual. The other day I asked him, “Does hypnosis work on people who don’t believe in hypnosis?” and he said yes. I’m open to trying it, though honestly I doubt its efficacy. While I’m happy with my sexuality and who I am, I see no harm in potentially adding some more options to the table.